Turns out that he never made it through boot camp, and was kicked out because he somehow got poison ivy in his esophagus.
I bring up the man's shrapnel injury and they all think I'm crazy. Fast-forward a year, I am talking with his wife and some of our mutual friends and we get on the topic of military injuries. Eventually we get to talking and he leads me to believe that he took a piece of shrapnel in the back and he was wheelchair bound for almost 2 years. He told everyone he used to be an EOD in the army. Personal account: I met an acquaintance about 2 years ago during job training (we got hired at the same time). I am not sure what causes this need to lie and make themselves seem better instead of being impressed by your own deeds. If you are having a conversation with them, and you tell a personal story, they have some sort of need/want/desire to tell a similar yet far more fantastical story. Generally (in my experience) compulsive liars are the kind of people that I like to call '1-uppers'. TL DR: Girl who was a compuslive liar used lies that were plausible and when we finally looked into them, she stopped talking to us. I transfered schools and have no idea what she's been up to since. After we confronted her about it, she faked crying, and then stopped talking to most of us for the last month of the semester. Turns out, she's just a regular girl from the middle class. We only caught her after her lies became increasingly ridiculous and finally we began to investigate her claims - of everything. Yes, it's possible to go and look up all of those things, but the details were just obscure enough to imply that she came from money, without stirring up enough curiousity to go and actually investigate her claims.
She also claimed that her father used to play second string in the NFL in the mid eighties. Quick story, a girl at my previous college claimed that her family owned one of the more prestegious equestian horses that won several years back. The bigger lies are often plausible when tied together in a web of lies. Sometimes, they even lie, and then admit to it later playing it off as a joke. Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Learn.They lie about the smallest things, about the most mundane things.
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